The Memorial Wreath: Flowers, Quotes and Costs

The funeral wreath is a classic element often given to the bereaved at a funeral or memorial service. Flowers, which primarily make up a funeral wreath, have always been part of the ritual of condolence and sympathy. The gesture is meant to symbolize the connection to the deceased.

In this article, we would like to explain the purpose of the funeral wreath and how it can be designed.

The Funeral Wreath

As a traditional floral arrangement, the funeral wreath, also known as a death wreath, burial wreath, or grave wreath, is a staple at any funeral or memorial service. The wreath allows mourners to express their admiration for the deceased and their respect for the bereaved.

The basic structure of the funeral wreath is often made from firs, such as noble fir, and it is additionally decorated with flowers, grasses, or pinecones. The funeral wreath is laid directly on or at the grave during the burial. If the death wreath is presented during the memorial service, it is usually placed directly in front of the casket.

The History of Funeral Wreaths

Funeral wreaths were long reserved exclusively for unmarried deceased individuals. It was only at the end of the 19th century that they became a standard burial custom for everyone. 

Up until the 1950s, so-called pearl wreaths were common. In this intricate grave decoration, a wire was threaded with glass beads and interwoven with artistic floral patterns.

The now-common floral arrangements made of boxwood or evergreen fir became established during World War II. Traditionally, it was and still is considered: the more significant the deceased was to the giver, the larger the wreath. 

Where is the Funeral Wreath Made?

The funeral wreath is made in almost all flower shops or nurseries. If you are unsure, we recommend contacting the respective shop in advance. 

When choosing a suitable funeral wreath, you should take your time. In professional floristry shops, you will receive detailed advice. You have a wide selection of flowers and other materials, such as ribbons, which can be attached directly to the wreath. Depending on the season, the floral decoration for the wreath may vary. 

Some service providers even take care of the entire floral decoration for the funeral or memorial service. It's best to inquire about a comprehensive service for the occasion. 

You can also make a funeral wreath yourself. The supplies needed for this can be obtained from specialist shops, and instructions can be found online. Homemade funeral wreaths give the grave gift a very personal touch. 

How is a Funeral Wreath Made?

The funeral wreath always has a base structure made of evergreen branches, such as noble fir. The wreath can be arranged in various styles and shapes.

Symmetrical: The funeral flowers are attached at the apex of the wreath.

Asymmetrical: The funeral flowers are offset from the apex.

Evenly Spaced: The funeral flowers are attached uniformly offset.

Typically, the funeral wreath has a diameter ranging from 40 cm to 90 cm. All styles can be additionally adorned with a ribbon bearing the name of the giver and a farewell message.

Flowers for the Funeral Wreath

Generally, you can choose which flowers you want to include in the funeral wreath. Depending on the season, the types of flowers and available materials may vary. Therefore, it is best to get detailed advice from a professional florist, as mentioned above.

Common flowers used for decorating the wreath include callas, lilies, carnations, roses, or gerberas, which can either be simply inserted into the wreath or woven into it. Besides flowers, the wreath is often adorned with ivy, boxwood, or thuja.

Those giving a funeral wreath can also opt for a mourning ribbon, which should match the color scheme of the floral decorations.

Messages for Funeral Wreaths: Personal Farewell

Having decided on a funeral wreath and had it made by a florist or nursery, you can also add a mourning ribbon to it. This ribbon can include a personal farewell message to the deceased. The florist who created your wreath usually handles the inscription as well.

The farewell message is typically placed on the left side of the ribbon, while the name of the giver is on the right side. A mourning ribbon adds a personal touch to the funeral wreath and is highly recommended for this reason.

Crafting a message for the funeral wreath can be difficult for many bereaved individuals. Since the text must be brief, choosing the right words is crucial.

Examples of Ribbon Texts:

• You will never be forgotten
• You are in our hearts
• In silent memory
• With grateful remembrance
• You have left your mark
• Your legacy endures
• With gratitude
• Farewell
• Rest in peace
• In deep sorrow
• To our dear ...

Who Gives the Funeral Wreath?

A funeral wreath is usually given by family members, friends, and relatives to the immediate bereaved. However, colleagues, neighbors, or fellow club members can also give a funeral wreath. Often, in such cases, the wreath is collectively funded, meaning everyone pitches in together for the wreath.

Giving a funeral wreath is a meaningful gesture and is open to anyone who feels connected to the deceased.

How Much Does a Funeral Wreath Cost?

A funeral wreath is always handcrafted. Each funeral wreath is unique and made specifically for the occasion of the funeral or memorial service. 

The costs for such a wreath can vary greatly. It's challenging to give a general statement here, as factors like size, type of craftsmanship, flowers, and materials used all play a role. 

However, you can expect to spend between €50 and €300 for a funeral wreath. This usually includes the mourning ribbon. 

What Happens to the Funeral Wreath After the Burial?

After the burial, funeral wreaths are taken to the grave along with other floral tributes and placed as temporary grave decorations once the grave is closed. Once the flowers have wilted, they are disposed of by the cemetery staff. 

An Alternative to the Funeral Wreath: The Memorial Arrangement

If you prefer an alternative to the funeral wreath, you can opt for a memorial arrangement. Like the wreath, this can be gifted as a gesture of sympathy and connection at the funeral or memorial service. 

Memorial arrangements come in various shapes such as cross, round, or heart forms. If desired, a mourning ribbon can also be added. The memorial arrangement is a cost-effective alternative to the funeral wreath. 

Conclusion

If you wish to express your condolences and solidarity during a funeral or memorial service, you can donate a funeral wreath, which represents a significant gesture for the bereaved. 

Your funeral wreath will be placed at or on the grave of the deceased after the memorial service or during the burial. It remains there until it is entirely wilted and then disposed of afterward.